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40th Wedding Anniversary Gifts – Ruby Wedding Anniversary

40th Wedding Anniversary Gifts - Ruby Wedding Anniversary

Traditional, Modern and Symbolic Anniversary Gifts

Traditional Gift – UKUKRuby
Traditional Gift – USUSARuby
Traditional Gift – AustraliaAustraliaRuby
Traditional Gift – CanadaCanadaRuby
Traditional Gift – SpainSpainRuby
Traditional Gift – GermanyGermanyRuby
Traditional Gift – FranceFranceEmerald
Traditional Gift – ItalyItalyRuby
Flower GiftAnniversary Flower GiftsNasturtium
Gemstone GiftGemstone anniversary giftsRuby
Modern GiftModern Anniversary GiftsRuby

Page Index

  • About 40th Wedding Anniversaries
  • How to Celebrate a 40th Wedding Anniversary
  • Common Questions About the 40th Wedding Anniversary
  • 40th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him
  • 40th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Her
  • 40th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her… and Parents

About 40th Wedding Anniversaries

Words can barely pay sufficient tribute to the incredible milestone of celebrating a 40th wedding anniversary. Well, perhaps one… as this is popularly known as the Ruby Anniversary.

The ruby symbolises love and passion, unquestionably much-needed qualities for a couple who have spent 40 years together. It is one of the most coveted gemstones of all, and within its heart is said to lie a fire that grows brighter with each passing year – just like the flame of a 40-year marriage.

How to Celebrate a 40th Wedding Anniversary

One of the flowers representing a 40th anniversary is the nasturtium, which symbolises patriotism, conquest, victory and impetuous love – all important attributes for a couple spending four decades together.

Another flower is the gladioli, a symbol of strength of character and of attracting love. Both these flowers bloom in a multitude of colours, so – whether you are the special couple celebrating your 40th, or you have been invited to a 40th wedding anniversary party – a bouquet of 40 ruby red gladioli would make a stunning and thoughtful gift.

And the marvellous rose became crimson, like the rose of the eastern sky. Crimson was the girdle of petals, and crimson as a ruby was the heart.” Quoted by: Oscar Wilde

Two Dozen Red Roses with Chocolates - From You Flowers
Buy her or the celebrating couple these two dozen red roses and chocs for this years anniversary gift
Send them the greatest expression of love and romance with a beautiful arrangement of fresh red roses. Red roses are a classic way of celebrating an Anniversary, Valentine's Day or just to say "I Love You". These red roses are delivered with a delicious box of chocolates - making this an extra special gift
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40th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her… and the Couple

Planning to host a party for your ruby anniversary celebration? Consider having table decorations comprising both gladioli and nasturtium, accompanied by a music playlist of songs that were popular the year you exchanged your vows.

If you have never taken a second honeymoon before, the 40th anniversary is a great time to rectify that oversight. If you already have, maybe it’s time for a third honeymoon!

Bearing in mind the significance of this celebration, jewellery is always a favoured gift for the 40th wedding anniversary. So maybe a heart-shaped ruby pendant for her and some ruby cufflinks for him? Or matching eternity rings mounted with rubies…

COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT THE 40TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY

Q: What is the 40th wedding anniversary called?
A: The 40th wedding anniversary is know as the Ruby Wedding Anniversary.

Q: What is the 40th wedding anniversary gemstone?
A: The 40th wedding anniversary gemstone is the Ruby. The ruby’s deep red colour also has ties to love, passion, and raw emotion. Long ago, humans believed that rubies contained drops of Mother Earth’s blood.

Q: What is the 40th wedding anniversary symbol?
A: The 40th wedding anniversary is symbolised by the Ruby, representing love and passion, it also shows how a couple celebrating their 40th anniversary are still committed to each other.

Q: What does the 40th wedding anniversary mean?
A: The 40th Ruby wedding anniversary means unquestionably much-needed qualities for a couple who have spent 40 years together.

Q: What are the traditional and modern gifts for a 40th wedding anniversary?
A: The traditional gift for a 40th wedding anniversary is the Ruby, with the modern gift also being a Ruby.

Q: What is the 40th year anniversary flower?
A: The 40th wedding anniversary flower has two, the nasturtium and the gladiola. Both symbolise loyalty and the strong devotion between a long-term married couple.

40th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him

What can I buy my husband for our 40th wedding anniversary? We’ve featured some of our top gift ideas below to help you find that perfect gift for your husband or partner. Check out our suggestions below:

Sterling Silver Ring with Ruby Stone [Amazon]
Buy him the silver and ruby stone ring for this years anniversary gift
Our fine Silver Rings are one of our top ranged products, handcrafted mens ring with Ruby stone will make the ideal gift for any occasion!
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Galaxy Watch 4 Classic 42mm Smartwatch [Amazon]
Buy him the Samsung Galaxy 4 smartwatch for this anniversary gift
Smartwatch with ECG Monitor Tracker for Health Fitness Running Sleep Cycles GPS Fall Detection, works with sports apps for golf, Bluetooth US Version Gift
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Callaway Laser Golf Rangefinder [Amazon]
Buy him or her the Callaway golf range finder for this years anniversary gift
Precise Slope Measurement: Our highly accurate laser rangefinder accounts for elevation changes and measures the angle of incline/decline, then calculates the slope adjusted distance
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Leather Portfolio Folder [Amazon]
Buy him this personal leather portfolio and binder for this years anniversary gift
The Portfolio folder is handcrafted in full grain leather, surface "crazy horse" tanned oil leather. It's durable, strong, and of course its gives an unique look and feel which combines luxury and antique touch
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Yes, 40 years is a long time, and you are both now at a gracefully maturing age, but don’t be fooled into thinking your partner is past his active days. Buy him a gift that reflects his interests and activities, and help him stay young in both body and mind. Here are some further gift ideas to help you find that pefect present to celebrate your ruby anniversary:

Funny 40th Wedding Anniversary T-Shirt [Amazon]
Buy him or her this Funny 40th Wedding Anniversary T-Shirt for this years anniversary gift
We survived 40 years of marriage! Husband & wife since 1979! A romantic gift for couples or partners who are celebrating their wedding anniversary
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Bearpaw Moccasin Slippers [Amazon]
Buy him these Bearpaw Moccasin Slippers for this years anniversary gift
Bearpaw Footwear is made for comfort with contemporary style. Our footwear is made from quality materials that provide an organic beauty that's wearable year round
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Elite Mixology Bartender Kit Cocktail Shaker Set [Amazon]
Buy him the Elite Mixology Bartender Kit Cocktail Shaker Set for this years anniversary gift
Barillio bar kit is the gift you want to give your loved ones. With the elegant box + eBook "Happy Hour" you're about to grant a present your recipient will never forget!
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Men's Silk Pyjamas Set [Amazon]
Buy him these luxury Silk Pyjamas Set for this years anniversary gift
Our sleepwear set is made of highest quality 100% pure mulberry silk, which feels smooth and luxurious against your skin, This pyjama set is a luxurious gift for your husband
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40th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Her

What should I buy my wife on our 40th wedding anniversary? After 40 years you may be getting a little stuck with what you buy your wife for your ruby anniversary. Here are some of our top gift ideas to help you buy the ideal gift for your partner:

Teardrop Ruby & Diamond Necklace - Gabriel Co.
Buy her this Teardrop Ruby & Diamond Necklace for the 40th wedding anniversary gift
A timeless necklace featuring a dainty round .05ct diamond atop an eye-catching pear shaped ruby. The ravishing July birthstone is expertly framed in beaded 14k white gold and suspended from a delicate cable chain
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Silver Smile Sterling Silver & Ruby Bracelet [Amazon]
Buy her this Silver Smile Sterling Silver & Ruby Bracelet for this years anniversary gift
This Pink Ruby Bracelet features gorgeous ruby gemstones. The high polished shiny finish of this gemstone bracelet will add a great touch to your outfit and match your trendy style
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Silver Abalone and Turquoise Dragonfly Cuff Bracelet [Amazon]
Buy her this Silver Abalone and Turquoise Dragonfly Cuff Bracelet for this years anniversary gift
This exclusive American West cuff bracelet design from the Fritz Casuse Collection captures the beauty and rich history of the Southwest in genuine .925 sterling silver
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Sterling Silver Heart Shaped Ruby Stud Earrings - Gabriel Co.
Buy her these Sterling Silver Heart Shaped Ruby Stud Earrings for this years anniversary gift
Carry love with you always when you wear these heart-shaped sterling silver stud earrings adorned with dainty round cut rubies. Ideal for Valentine's Day, anniversaries or other romantic occasions, let these ruby heart earrings serve as a sign of your enduring devotion
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Celebrate your 40th wedding anniversary with our great gift ideas. If you can’t find exactly what you are looking for here, remember we have hundreds more gift suggestions to choose from on our other anniversary pages and in our gift shop.

Engraved Wooden Gift Set 'to My Beautiful Wife' [Amazon]
Buy her the Engraved Wooden Gift Set 'to My Beautiful Wife' for this years anniversary gift
Your Wife will absolutely love this 24K gold dipped red rose. This rose is also equipped with a leisure stand so it can be put on display for all to see! This rose is a symbol of true love, from the flourishing petals to the blossoming bud
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Dahlia Women's 100% Wool Scarf [Amazon]
Buy her this Dahlia Women's 100% wool Scarf, very stylish and a great anniversary gift
This high quality light weight shawl scarf easily creates a chic and stylish look all year round, pick from a selection of floral design scarves
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Soft Fleece Ladies Pyjamas [Amazon]
Buy her these Soft Fleece Ladies Pyjamas for this years anniversary gift
The most luxurious sweats ever, this decadent sweatshirt pyjama set features a stylish cowl neck top and pants, comfortable top offers the warmth and comfort of your favorite hoodie with soft Sherpa lining, a hand-warming kangaroo pocket and cozy rib-knit cuffs
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Lindt Assorted Chocolate Gift Box [Amazon]
Buy her these Lindt Assorted Chocolate Gift Box for this years anniversary gift
Experience the ultimate chocolate indulgence with this Lindt Creation Dessert Assorted Chocolate Gift Box. This beautiful gift box of assorted chocolate candy is the perfect way to turn everyday events into special occasions
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40th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her, Parents… and Other Couples

What to buy your parents or your grandparents for their rub wedding anniversary? After all these years, you may have run out of ideas as to what to buy. We’ve picked out some of our top gift ideas below to help you chose that perfect gift. Check out the gift ideas below:

40th Anniversary Mr Right & Mrs Always Right Mug Gift Set [Amazon]
Buy them or each other the 40th Anniversary Mr Right & Mrs Always Right Mug Gift Set for this anniversary gift
The "40th" is written in a vibrant red for the 40th ruby anniversary theme. Makes for a very unique and thoughtful gift for a happy couple celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary
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40th Ruby Anniversary Happy 40 Year Wedding Gift [Amazon]
Buy them this 40th Ruby anniversary print for their anniversary gift
This makes a lovely and rustic 40th Anniversary gifts for the couple, parents or friends, It is a keepsake that your gift recipients can hang on the wall to remember how special they are and how much you love them
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Photo Frame Happy Anniversary 40th Ruby Wedding [Amazon]
Buy them this Photo Frame Happy Anniversary 40th Ruby Wedding for this years anniversary gift
Happy 40th Ruby Wedding Anniversary dual photo frame special occasion gift idea. A gorgeous 40th Ruby Anniversary double photo frame
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Lacy Glass Art Sea Coral Fruit Bowl in Deep Ruby Red [Amazon]
Buy them this Lacy Glass Art Sea Coral Fruit Bowl in Deep Ruby Red for this years anniversary gift
This gently sloping, glass bowl replicates sea coral in all its splendour. Done in a deep ruby red, this transparent glass makes a beautiful piece of table art or works perfectly as a functional fruit bowl
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Boston Wine Goblet Set of 4 [Amazon]
Buy them the Boston Wine Goblet Set of 4 for this years anniversary gift
Perfect for wine, cocktails, or any other refreshing beverage, this set of four crystal glass goblets from the Villeroy & Boch Boston collection will bring your tableware to a new level of sophistication
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40th Ruby Wedding Anniversary Couple Blanket Gift [Amazon]
Buy them the 40th Ruby Wedding Anniversary Couple Blanket Gift for this years gift
Perfect for snuggling up on the couch, bed, sofa, chilly movie theatre, park, office naps, camping, travel, sleeping and driving. The breathable blankets make it suitable for all seasons
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Experience & Adventure Days For Him, Her & Couples Gifts
Buy the celebrating couple an adventure experience day, maybe a sailing trip with lunch or a hot air balloon ride, we have a great selection for this years anniversary gift
Shop unique gifts for couples to find an incredible experience that they'll remember for years to come. Whether they prefer adventure or relaxation, choose from hundreds of experience gift ideas for couples in cities all across the US!
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Additional Travel & Experience Gifts

If you’re still not sure what to buy as a gift for the ruby anniversary, here are some alternative ideas that may help to find that perfect travel or experience type gift:

  • Location visit
  • Travel and activity gift vouchers
  • Adventure days
  • Food and drink (luxury dining for two)
  • Chocolate-making master class.
  • Escape to the country (many locations to choose from)
  • Luxury spa day for two
  • Concert or cinema
  • VIP foodies festival

Now for Something Different & Unique

  • Plan a tour of Europe’s most alluring cities, some you’ve visited in years past, and others you’ve never had the chance to explore – until now.
  • If you both enjoy golf, why not head further afield, to the Bahamas to play a round on the Ruby Golf Course?
  • If you prefer to stay closer to home, book a luxury hotel getaway – and enjoy a relaxing and revitalising range of spa treatments during your stay.
  • Never too late… how about signing up for dance lessons together?
  • Arrange a weekend away to listen to some live jazz.

Clearly, a 40 yeare wedding anniversary is something truly special, and just about as good a reason as any to celebrate in grand style.

Hopefully, no need for you to organise a celebration party, as there’s a strong chance your children (and grandchildren?) are already hard at work arranging a surprise gathering of friends and family.

Therefore, after 40 wonderful years together, now would be the perfect time to make plans to re-visit a place that brings back treasured memories from your early days together.

Whatever you decide, this day will already be full of love and romance. So just pop the cork on a bottle of vintage Champagne and savour the remarkable experience of having been together for four decades.

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Justin Aldridge

This page has been written by Justin Aldridge. Justin is passionate about helping couples to make their anniversary as special as possible. Justin enjoys being creative and coming up with different and inspiring ideas for couples to celebrate their anniversary in style each year.

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