Traditional, Modern and Symbolic Anniversary Gifts
Below is a list of both traditional and modern gift materials, as well as classic flower and gemstone symbols, which mark a couple’s 31st wedding anniversary in countries around the world…
| Traditional Gift – UK |  | No Traditional Gift |
| Traditional Gift – US |  | No Traditional Gift |
| Traditional Gift – Australia |  | No Traditional Gift |
| Traditional Gift – Canada |  | No Traditional Gift |
| Traditional Gift – Spain |  | Ebony |
| Traditional Gift – Germany |  | Linden |
| Traditional Gift – France |  | Sheep Skin |
| Traditional Gift – Italy |  | Ebony |
| Flower Gift |  | White Flowers |
| Gemstone Gift |  | Ebony |
| Modern Gift |  | Timepieces |
Discover the 31st year anniversary
- About 31st Wedding Anniversaries
- How to Celebrate a 31st Wedding Anniversary
- Common Questions About the 31st Wedding Anniversary
- 31st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him
- 31st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Her
- 31st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Parents
- 31st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for In-laws
About 31st Wedding Anniversaries
Although the 31stwedding anniversary may seem less important than the milestone of your previous anniversary, it should really be celebrated in full. Most couples have had a big celebration the year before and so the 31st wedding anniversary is a fantastic opportunity to celebrate in a more romantic setting with just the two of you.
There are no traditional gifts for this occasion but the modern gift for this anniversary is a timepiece. Timepieces as a gift are a strong symbol of your ever-lasting love and symbolise the journey you have both taken from the past when you first met to the future and where you are heading.
How to Celebrate a 31st Wedding Anniversary
A weekend away at a couple’s hotel is always a great way to celebrate your 31st wedding anniversary. Whether it is a nice spa hotel in the countryside or your own secluded rental, getting that time away from the hustle and bustle of your daily lives to enjoy your anniversary and switch off is crucial for a long lasting marriage.
You can opt for a dinner at a luxury restaurant or keep the budget smaller by cooking your other half their favourite meal.
White flowers are associated with the 31st wedding anniversary and white roses are always a lovely touch as a gift to your partner on this special day.
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms, numberless times, in life after life, in age after age, forever.” Quoted by: Rabindranath Tagore
31st Wedding Anniversary Gift for Him, Her… and the Couple
Choosing a 31st wedding anniversary gift is largely up to your imagination, as there aren’t any common gemstones, flowers or traditional symbols associated with this year.
That means you can buy your husband or wife something truly special that you know they will absolutely love. Displaying your mutual appreciation through giving is extremely personal, and it says so much about the long-standing love you have for each other.
Even though no specific flowers are associated with the 31st wedding anniversary, if your partner loves roses, lilies, daffodils or even orchids, why not buy a bouquet of these in white?
Fresh flowers look and smell amazing, and lift the atmosphere of any room. The way they breathe and are full of life and presence really makes a statement in any living room or kitchen space. Plus, they will be a great talking point for admiring guests if you host a party at home.
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COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT THE 31st WEDDING ANNIVERSARY
Q: What is the 31st wedding anniversary called?
A: Although the 31st wedding anniversary does not have a popular symbolic name, we link it with the traditional flower gift of white flowers.
Q: What is the 31st wedding anniversary gemstone?
A: The 31st wedding anniversary stone is ebony. This is not known as a gemstone so black onyx could be used as a substitute for jewellery gifts.
Q: What is the 31st wedding anniversary symbol?
A: The 31st wedding anniversary does not have a traditional symbol, but the modern gift is a watch – a symbol of time.
Q: What is the 31st wedding anniversary colour?
A: The 31st wedding anniversary colour is not specific, so choose your own favourite colours if you’re having a party.
Q: What are the traditional and modern gifts for a 31st wedding anniversary?
A: The modern gift for a 31st wedding anniversary is a timepiece – the gift of time and, if chosen wisely, an investment for the future.
Q: What is the 31st year anniversary flower?
A: The 31st wedding anniversary flower, although not specific, can include white flowers such as roses, freesias and other blooms.
31st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him
What can I buy my husband for our 31st wedding anniversary?
The modern gift for the 31st wedding anniversary is a timepiece which opens the door to an array of wonderful gifts. If your husband likes watches, then indulge him with a stunning wristwatch from any number of luxury watch designers. Alternatively, if he is into health and fitness then there are numerous smartwatches that are able to track any exercise, steps or activity he does with GPS accuracy.
Check out some of our gift suggestions below.
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Apart from timepieces for this anniversary gift, you could also opt for a gift that incorporates his interests. Here are a few other great suggestions…
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31st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Her
What should I buy my wife on our 31st wedding anniversary?
Ebony gemstones are the gemstone gift associated with the 31st wedding anniversary. These gemstones are black crystals and found in all sorts of jewellery so why not treat your wife to a beautiful, handcrafted ring or pendant to mark the special occasion.
Still looking for gift inspiration? Check out the list below.
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Need additional ideas for that perfect gift for your partner? Check out more suggestions below…
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31st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Parents… and Friends
Ebony is known as a rare and precious material because ebony trees are extremely slow growing and evergreen making it a perfect representation of a long and success full marriage. Many species of Ebony are now protected due to certain species becoming extinct.
Consider the modern gift for this year and buy them a timepiece gift for your parents 31st wedding anniversary or an antique cabinet with Ebony inlays. Of course you do not always have to stick with traditional gifts, a gourmet foodie treat or new wine glasses could be the perfect anniversary gift.
For more gift ideas, browse through the gifts below.
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31stWedding Anniversary Gifts for In-laws
The usual images that a timepiece conjures up is one of watches and clocks but a unique gift for your parents in law for their 31st wedding anniversary is a sundial. A nice idea is to add a timeline inscription that marks some of the memorable milestones the happy couple have had over the years.
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Travel & Experience Gifts
- Location visit
- Travel and activity gift vouchers (from Red Letter Days)
- Adventure days
- Food and drink (afternoon tea for two)
- Escape to the country (many locations to choose from)
- Luxury spa day for two
- Country house getaway (relaxing weekend for two)
- Pleasure flights
Jewellery
A modern-day 31st wedding anniversary gemstone is ebony.
- Earrings
- Pendants
- Rings
- Necklace
- Tie Pin
- Cufflinks
Something Different & Unique
- Visit one of the world’s most famous clocks: Big Ben at the Palace of Westminster in London.
- Book a trip to Geneva in Switzerland – a venerable capital of both classic and contemporary watchmaking.
- Buy an antique timepiece as a new statement objet d’art for your living room.
- Turn back the clock at a concert by one of your favourite 1980s bands – many are still going strong.
This never fails when wanting to share your anniversary with friends and family: host a celebration party with all the trimmings at home, or in a local restaurant where someone else can take care of all the work and all you have to do is enjoy some unbridled fun with your partner and guests.
As always, the most important thing is to enjoy celebrating another year – an impressive 31 in all now – with the one you love.
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About The Author
This page has been written by Justin Aldridge. Justin is passionate about helping couples to make their anniversary as special as possible. Justin enjoys being creative and coming up with different and inspiring ideas for couples to celebrate their anniversary in style each year.
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