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21st Wedding Anniversary Gifts

21st wedding anniversary - Copper - Opal

Traditional, Modern and Symbolic Anniversary Gifts

Below is a list of both traditional and modern gift materials, as well as classic flower and gemstone symbols, which mark a couple’s 21st wedding anniversary in countries around the world…

Traditional Gift – UKUKNo Traditional Gift
Traditional Gift – USUSANo Traditional Gift
Traditional Gift – AustraliaAustraliaNo Traditional Gift
Traditional Gift – CanadaCanadaNo Traditional Gift
Traditional Gift – SpainSpainOak
Traditional Gift – GermanyGermanyOpal
Traditional Gift – FranceFranceOpal
Traditional Gift – ItalyItalyOak
Flower GiftAnniversary Flower GiftsIris
Gemstone GiftGemstone anniversary giftsOpal
Modern GiftModern Anniversary GiftsBrass and Nickel

Page Index

  • About 21st Wedding Anniversaries
  • How to Celebrate Your 21st Wedding Anniversary
  • Common Questions About the 21th Wedding Anniversary
  • 21st Anniversary Gifts for Him
  • 21st Anniversary Gifts for Her
  • 21st Anniversary Gifts for Parents

About 21st Wedding Anniversaries

Last year you reached the significant milestone of being married for 20 years and celebrating your China Anniversary. That certainly doesn’t mean, however, that this year’s 21st anniversary should feel anything like an anti-climax.

On the contrary… As we are, after all, well into the 21st century, you can celebrate yet another year of happy marriage in a variety of creative and contemporary ways. In many countries, 21 is the age of consent, which means that this year you can perhaps indulge yourselves by trying new things you’ve never done before – or possibly not been allowed to do 😉

Rose and Lily Bouquet - From You Flowers
Buy her or them the rose and lily bouquet for this years anniversary gift
Send stunning flowers to celebrate any occasion! With classic floral colors including red roses and pink lilies, the Rose and Lily Celebration is a wonderful gift to send for any anniversary
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How to Celebrate Your 21st Wedding Anniversary

A little adventure is a great way to maintain a relationship that is exciting and fun-filled, even after 21 years! How about booking an adventure or activity holiday? Or trying something on the wild side that you could do together, such as a skydive, bungee jump, supercar racing experience or whitewater rafting?

If you’ve actually already done all of those activities together – and clearly are keen adventure-seekers – you’ll have to go even more extreme for your 21st wedding anniversary.

There are as many worlds as there are kinds of days, and as an opal changes its colors and its fire to match the nature of a day, so do I.” Quoted by: John Steinbeck

21st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her… and the Couple

There is no traditional gift you could give for a 21st anniversary, but suggested modern gifts are brass and nickel. If you want to go with the brass theme, you could surprise your loved one with a night out at a concert with a brass band element to the music.

Great selection of Experience Days for Him & Her

If you prefer to go with the nickel theme, how about a surprise weekend getaway to Amsterdam? Until the the introduction of the euro in 2002, the Dutch Guilder was made purely of nickel. If one were needed – this is alluring Amsterdam after all! – that’s a good excuse for a weekend in the Netherlands’ capital city.

Alternatively, back near home a jazz or soul band evening would certainly hit all the right notes, offering just the right music and atmosphere for a wonderfully romantic anniversary celebration. We have a great selection of experience days to choose from across the site.

Common Questions About the 21st Wedding Anniversary

Q: What is the 21st wedding anniversary called?
A: The 21st wedding anniversary does not have a specific known name.

Q: What is the 21st wedding anniversary gemstone?
A: The 21st wedding anniversary gemstone is the Opal.

Q: What is the 21st wedding anniversary symbol?
A: The 21st wedding anniversary is not symbolised by anything other than another great year to celebrate.

Q: What is the 21st wedding anniversary colour?
A: The colour synonymous with the 21st wedding anniversary would be orange, linked to the modern gift for this anniversary.

Q: What are the traditional and modern gifts for a 21st wedding anniversary?
A: There is no traditional gift for the 21st wedding anniversary, however the modern gift is Brass and Nickel.

Q: What is the 21st year anniversary flower?
A: The classic flower for 21st wedding anniversary celebrations is the Iris, they can represent faith, hope, courage, wisdom and admiration.

21st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him

What can I buy my husband for our 21st wedding anniversary? Here we feature a great selection of gift ideas to help you choose.

Real Ethiopian Opal Rough Crystals Pendant [Amazon]
Buy him the Gemkora Real Ethiopian Opal Rough Crystals Pendant for this years anniversary gift
Opal is beneficial for the health or your eyes, kidneys and skin. This stone is helpful if you are challenged by dehydration or water retention, not only that it makes a great gift
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Blue Opal Men´s Bracelet [Amazon]
Buy him this Blue Opal Men´s Bracelet for this years anniversary gift
Minimalist Blue Opal bracelet for men with polished black onyx beads are paired with sterling silver to give this masculine bracelet a simple yet sophisticated look
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American Flag Solid Brass Belt Buckle [Amazon]
Buy him the American Flag Solid Brass Belt Buckle for this years anniversary gift
A life time heirloom accessory to be cherished for generations and a great anniversary gift for any US citizen
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Wooden Chess Board Brown Leather Hip Flask Set [Amazon]
Buy him the Wooden Chess Board Brown Leather Hip Flask Set for this years anniversary gift
Finest stainless steel, hip flask, it´s an awesome gift for him, also can play chess while drinking with friends
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Our options include gifts for him on a budget, as well as both traditional and modern ideas and experience day suggestions.

Fisher Space Pen Raw Brass Bullet Pen [Amazon]
Buy him the Fisher Space Pen Raw Brass Bullet Pen for this years anniversary gift
Writes at any angle, even in Zero Gravity. Simply the most versatile pen ever made. Writes in extreme temperatures from -30F to 250F
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Nickel 21st Anniversary Gift [Amazon]
Buy him this personalized Nickel 21st Anniversary Gift for this years gift
Hand stamped "21 years & counting" on the aluminum piece and hearts around the year on the 2000 nickel. Nickel is the traditional gift for twenty-one years of marriage
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Harley-Davidson Men's Burnished Tri-Fold Skull Wallet [Amazon]
Buy him the Harley-Davidson Men's Burnished Tri-Fold Skull Wallet for this years anniversary gift
Harley-Davidson Men's Burnished Tri-Fold Willie G Skull Wallet with back pocket. Made of black and tan distressed genuine leather. Debossed and buffed Willie G Skull logo
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Level 21 Complete 21st Year Wedding Anniversary Gift T-Shirt [Amazon]
Buy him or her the Level 21 Complete 21st Year Wedding Anniversary Gift T-Shirt
Every husband or wife will love to wear this funny 21st marriage anniversary gift T-Shirt to wear at a fun party
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21st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Her

What should I buy my wife on our 21st wedding anniversary?

Gemstone Rose Flower Heart Opal Necklace [Amazon]
Buy her the Gemstone Rose Flower Heart Opal Necklace for this years anniversary gift
Opal Heart Necklace Heart symbolizes your forever love. Most people believe that more than one heart intertwined has the same meaning as joined circles – love is never ending
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14K Gold White Opal Large Drop Earrings [Amazon]
Buy her these 14K Gold White Opal Large Drop Earrings for this years anniversary gift
Marvel at the depths of your earrings’ beauty. Your white opal jewelry features high-end, 14k gold and a circular, lab-created white opal that dazzles with sparkling flecks of color
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21 Year Wedding Anniversary Wife Gift [Amazon]
Buy her the 21 Year Wedding Anniversary Wife Gift for this years gift
21 Years go by so quickly, doesn't It? Take some time to celebrate your 21st Wedding Anniversary with a gift that says "I Love You"
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Vintage Style Brass Tiered Hanging Jewelry Tree [Amazon]
Buy her this very handy Vintage Style Brass Tiered Hanging Jewelry Tree for this years anniversary gift
2 tiers of 12 hooks are perfect for organizing necklaces, bracelets, and other hanging jewelry with a sleek, modern finish
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If your wife is the adventurous type, or likes a little pampering (and who doesn’t!), try these suggestions. Or you could also check out our other anniversary pages for hundreds of additional gift ideas.

Zodiac Belt Buckles [Amazon]
Buy her or him a Zodiac Belt Buckle for this years anniversary gift, choose your birth sign
Our solid brass belt buckles will be a great addition to any wardrobe for woman and for the man. So it can be a great present for any occasion! Choose their sign
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Sleep Mask Bluetooth Wireless Music [Amazon]
Buy her or him the Sleep Mask Bluetooth Wireless with Music for this years anniversary gift
The High-fidelity stereo sound of this Bluetooth sleep headphones mask produce great sound quality, provide a well-closed and immersed environment for your ears, Just lose yourself in the music!
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Pink Tool Belt for Women [Amazon]
Buy her the very handy Pink Tool Belt for DIY or other tools used around the house or work, great anniversary gift
Channel your inner superwoman with our chic tool belt. You can wear it for all your DIY home and garden projects to keep all your tools organized and within easy reach
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21st Anniversary Fun T-Shirt for Her - [Amazon]
Buy her the
I survived 21st years of marriage and I´m looking forward to forever. Fun and Romantic 21st wedding anniversary gift for wife or partner with a cute arrow, heart, and flower bouquet graphic
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21st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her… and Parents

As a loving husband-wife, and as your parents, they both deserve beautiful greetings and gifts that are worthy of all the commitment and hard work they have put into their marriage.

From funny family memories to romantic quotes… write the cutest and sweetest messages on a card to make sure that your warm wishes and thoughtful gifts are the perfect start to your parents’ special day.

Here are some budget gift suggestions for your parents…

Brass Candle Holders [Amazon]
Buy them these brass candle holders for this years anniversary gift
These candlestick holders are sleek, slender, modern and with a bit of vintage. They also have a great weight which means they won't fall over from the weight of a candle or the wind
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Bird Nest Wind Chimes [Amazon]
Buy them these bird nest wind chimes for this years anniversary gift
Bronze-colored resin bird nest with mother bird and her 2 children waiting for feeding; 12 copper alloy bells and wind catcher. Hangs beautifully in your garden, home, patio or office
Buy it now
Moscow Mule Copper Mugs [Amazon]
Buy them or him this Moscow Mule Copper Mugs set for this years anniversary gift
Artisan’s Village brings you authentic traditionally handcrafted Moscow Mule Mugs made from copper-plated stainless steel
Buy it now
Portable Fridge & Car Cooler 12V [Amazon]
Buy him this very handy portable car fridge freezer for this anniversary gift
With SetPower, you don't need to waste time and money buying ice to keep the internal food or drink frozen, perfect for picnics and days out, fits in the car, great gift anytime
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When it comes to gift suggestions for a couple and friends, experience days are always a great and pleasantly surprising choice. Or perhaps send them a gift to share at home, such as a bottle of their favorite wine and some exquisite chocolates.

Godiva Chocolatier Assorted Chocolate Gift Box [Amazon]
Buy her these Godiva Chocolatier Assorted Chocolates Gift Box for this anniversary gift
Delicious Fillings: Ganaches, luscious caramels, smooth pralines, and other delectable fillings sit beneath assorted milk, white, and dark chocolate shells
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Chocolate & Sweets Gourmet Gift Basket [Amazon]
Buy them the Broadway Basketeers Chocolate & Sweets Thinking of You Gourmet Gift Basket for this anniversary gift
This gourmet gift basket comes overstuffed with goodies and sweets! Great for a sharing anniversary gift
Buy it now

Travel & Experience Gifts

Experience & Adventure Days For Him, Her & Couples Gifts
Buy the celebrating couple an adventure experience day, maybe a sailing trip with lunch or a hot air balloon ride, we have a great selection for this years anniversary gift
Shop unique gifts for couples to find an incredible experience that they'll remember for years to come. Whether they prefer adventure or relaxation, choose from hundreds of experience gift ideas for couples in cities all across the US!
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Here below are some more excellent suggestions for gifts that can be bought via our Red Letter Days link.

  • Location visit (Amsterdam)
  • Travel and activity gift vouchers
  • Archery, air rifle and clay shooting for two
  • Boutique hotel and spa (just for two)
  • Escape to the country (many locations to choose from)
  • Luxury spa day for two
  • Sky diving and parachute jumps (really stepping out of the box)
  • Adventure sports days (for the active couple or family)

Jewellery

The traditional 21st wedding anniversary gemstone is opal.

  • Earrings
  • Pendants
  • Rings
  • Necklace
  • Tie Pin
  • Cufflinks

Something Different & Unique

  • Arrange a weekend getaway to the picturesque oak forests of Serra de Collserola nature park in Cataluña.
  • Buy a stunning bronze artwork, for indoors or outside in the garden.
  • Organise a celebratory gathering at home, for family and friends, that recreates your (and your partner’s) 21st birthday party.  
  • Go for the big gesture and plan a major trip away to Australia, to visit the opal mines in Lightning Ridge. 

The most important consideration is to not let the 20th celebrations overshadow your 21st wedding anniversary. Enjoy an adventurous and exciting new celebration, with all the modern trimmings of the 21st century.

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Justin Aldridge

This page has been written by Justin Aldridge. Justin is passionate about helping couples to make their anniversary as special as possible. Justin enjoys being creative and coming up with different and inspiring ideas for couples to celebrate their anniversary in style each year.

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