21st Wedding Anniversary Gifts

Traditional, Modern and Symbolic 21 Year Anniversary Gifts

Below is a list of both traditional and modern gift materials, as well as classic flower and gemstone symbols, which mark a couple’s 21st wedding anniversary in countries around the world…

Traditional Gift – UK		No Traditional Gift
Traditional Gift – US		No Traditional Gift
Traditional Gift – Australia		No Traditional Gift
Traditional Gift – Canada		No Traditional Gift
Traditional Gift – Spain		Oak
Traditional Gift – Germany		Opal
Traditional Gift – France		Opal
Traditional Gift – Italy		Oak
Flower Gift		Iris
Gemstone Gift		Opal
Modern Gift		Brass and Nickel

Discover the 21st year anniversary

• About 21st Wedding Anniversaries
• How to Celebrate Your 21st Wedding Anniversary
• Common Questions About the 21th Wedding Anniversary
• 21st Anniversary Gifts for Him
• 21st Anniversary Gifts for Her
• 21st Anniversary Gifts for Parents
• 21st Anniversary Gifts for In-laws

About 21st Wedding Anniversaries

After celebrating the big 20^th wedding anniversary just last year, your 21^st anniversary may seem like a less exciting milestone. Any anniversary, however, is a good excuse to celebrate!

Whilst the 21^st anniversary doesn’t have a traditional gift material, the modern gift material is widely considered to be brass or nickel. Perhaps after a lavish 20^th wedding anniversary, brass and nickel can offer a lovely practical gift. But fear not, there are plenty of romantic and/or luxury gifts you can indulge your husband or wife in if you so wish.

Sea Glass “Happy 21st Anniversary” Gift [Etsy]

A lovely and fun framed picture toasting to a wonderful 21 years together, all made with genuine sea glass. The sea glass is collected by the artist from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain.

This makes for a lovely and unique anniversary gift to give to your loved one.

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How to Celebrate Your 21st Wedding Anniversary

A fun (and perhaps unusual) way of celebrating your 21^st wedding anniversary would be to buy a couple of tickets to a brass band concert, have a dance and let your hair down – extend an invite to friends and you’ve got yourself a good night out!

If you are the adventurous type and enjoy the great outdoors, a personalised brass compass would make a thoughtful and unique gift. A surprise planned hiking trip would keep your wedding anniversary celebrations within budget whilst also being a cute day out. Take a picnic and soak in the views.

This is also a great way of celebrating your anniversary if you have left the planning a little last minute!

Rose and Lily Bouquet - From You Flowers

There are as many worlds as there are kinds of days, and as an opal changes its colors and its fire to match the nature of a day, so do I.” Quoted by: John Steinbeck

21st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her… and the Couple

If you are looking for a cheap and practical gift following your big 20^th wedding anniversary, a vintage brass front door knocker would make a charming gift. Not only can they be incredibly fashionable (a bumble bee, for example) but they will also be a lovely reminder of your wedding anniversary every time you come home. How cute is that?!

This also makes a gorgeous gift if you are buying it for the lovely couple, perhaps your brother or sister on their anniversary.

Great selection of Experience Days for Him & Her

If Canada has been on your bucket list for some time now, your 21^st wedding anniversary is the perfect excuse to book that trip. ‘The Big Nickel’ in Ontario, Canada, is a 9 metre tall replica of a 1951 Canadian Nickel and is the world’s largest coin.

Tie in your visit with a whale watching trip and a visit to one of the many stunning National Park, perhaps you will get to see a grizzly bear! It will be an anniversary to remember.

Common Questions About the 21st Wedding Anniversary

Q: What is the 21st wedding anniversary called?
A: The 21st wedding anniversary does not have a specific known name.

Q: What is the 21st wedding anniversary gemstone?
A: The 21st wedding anniversary gemstone is the Opal.

Q: What is the 21st wedding anniversary symbol?
A: The 21st wedding anniversary is not symbolised by anything other than another great year to celebrate.

Q: What is the 21st wedding anniversary colour?
A: The colour synonymous with the 21st wedding anniversary would be orange, linked to the modern gift for this anniversary.

Q: What are the traditional and modern gifts for a 21st wedding anniversary?
A: There is no traditional gift for the 21st wedding anniversary, however the modern gift is Brass and Nickel.

Q: What is the 21st year anniversary flower?
A: The classic flower for 21st wedding anniversary celebrations is the Iris, they can represent faith, hope, courage, wisdom and admiration.

21st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him

What can I buy my husband for our 21st wedding anniversary? Here we feature a great selection of gift ideas to help you choose.

Real Ethiopian Opal Rough Crystals Pendant [Amazon]

Blue Opal Men´s Bracelet [Amazon]

American Flag Solid Brass Belt Buckle [Amazon]

Wooden Chess Board Brown Leather Hip Flask Set [Amazon]

Our options include gifts for him on a budget, as well as both traditional and modern ideas and experience day suggestions.

Fisher Space Pen Raw Brass Bullet Pen [Amazon]

Nickel 21st Anniversary Gift [Amazon]

Harley-Davidson Men's Burnished Tri-Fold Skull Wallet [Amazon]

Level 21 Complete 21st Year Wedding Anniversary Gift T-Shirt [Amazon]

21st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Her

What should I buy my wife on our 21st wedding anniversary? Here are some of our hand picked gift ideas to help you make her day that bit more special!

Sea Glass Dinner Date Setting [Etsy]

A wonderful framed unique design of a romantic dinner date, all made with genuine sea glass. The sea glass is collected by the artist from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain.

This makes for a lovely and unique anniversary gift to give to your loved one.

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Gemstone Rose Flower Heart Opal Necklace [Amazon]

14K Gold White Opal Large Drop Earrings [Amazon]

21 Year Wedding Anniversary Wife Gift [Amazon]

Vintage Style Brass Tiered Hanging Jewelry Tree [Amazon]

If your wife is the adventurous type, or likes a little pampering (and who doesn’t!), try these suggestions. Or you could also check out our other anniversary pages for hundreds of additional gift ideas.

Zodiac Belt Buckles For Her and Him [Amazon]

Sleep Mask Bluetooth Wireless Music [Amazon]

Pink Tool Belt for Women [Amazon]

21st Anniversary Fun T-Shirt for Her - [Amazon]

21st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her… and Parents

If it is your mum and dad’s anniversary that you are searching for a gift for then start with a heartfelt card. From funny family memories to romantic quotes, your warm wishes are sure to put a smile on their faces.

Here are some budget gift suggestions for your parents…

Brass Candle Holders [Amazon]

Bird Nest Wind Chimes [Amazon]

Moscow Mule Copper Mugs [Amazon]

Portable Fridge & Car Cooler 12V [Amazon]

When it comes to gift suggestions for a couple and friends, experience days are always a great and pleasantly surprising choice. Or perhaps send them a gift to share at home, such as a bottle of their favourite wine and some exquisite chocolates.

21ST WEDDING ANNIVERSARY GIFTS FOR IN-LAWS

When it comes to finding the perfect anniversary gift for the in-laws, personalized nickel or brass keyrings would make a thoughtful gift. Brass candle holders will always go down well but if you’re looking for a more unique gift, then how about brass incense holders? Sure to make any home smell fantastic!

Godiva Chocolatier Assorted Chocolate Gift Box [Amazon]

Chocolate & Sweets Gourmet Gift Basket [Amazon]

Matching Puzzle Keychain for Couples [Amazon]

Tibetan Incense Stick Holder [Amazon]

Travel & Experience Gifts

Experience & Adventure Days For Him, Her & Couples Gifts

Here below are some more excellent suggestions for gifts that can be bought via our Red Letter Days link.

• Location visit (Amsterdam)
• Travel and activity gift vouchers
• Archery, air rifle and clay shooting for two
• Boutique hotel and spa (just for two)
• Escape to the country (many locations to choose from)
• Luxury spa day for two
• Sky diving and parachute jumps (really stepping out of the box)
• Adventure sports days (for the active couple or family)

Jewellery

The traditional 21st wedding anniversary gemstone is opal.

• Earrings
• Pendants
• Rings
• Necklace
• Tie Pin
• Cufflinks

Something Different & Unique

• Arrange a weekend getaway to the picturesque oak forests of Serra de Collserola nature park in Cataluña.
• Buy a stunning bronze artwork, for indoors or outside in the garden.
• Organise a celebratory gathering at home, for family and friends, that recreates your (and your partner’s) 21st birthday party.  
• Go for the big gesture and plan a major trip away to Australia, to visit the opal mines in Lightning Ridge. 

The most important consideration is to not let the 20th celebrations overshadow your 21st wedding anniversary. Enjoy an adventurous and exciting new celebration, with all the modern trimmings of the 21st century.

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About The Author

This page has been written by Justin Aldridge. Justin is passionate about helping couples to make their anniversary as special as possible. Justin enjoys being creative and coming up with different and inspiring ideas for couples to celebrate their anniversary in style each year.